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Enneagram Coaching for Couples

Deepen Connection. Navigate Conflict. Grow Together.

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Enneagram Coaching for Relationships

Our couples coaching is designed to help you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend understand each other more clearly, communicate more compassionately, and move through challenges with greater awareness and grace.

Using the Enneagram in the Embodiment Tradition, we’ll explore how your patterns interact—where you may feel stuck, misunderstood, or disconnected—and guide you back to connection through presence, empathy, and insight.

Sessions include a discussion of core type and Instinctual stacking, and how that unique combination affects communication. You’ll leave with a tailored plan for growth that supports deepened clarity and purposeful engagement.

Together, you’ll move past miscommunication, blame, and separateness, embracing the journey of learning how to meet yourselves and each other with more openness, clarity, and love.

“I needed someone to orient me to a loved one's core motivations in order to understand her better. Ali was an amazing coach for us and helped us grow tremendously. Her embodied approach stays with you!” – Ona A.

Meet Your Guides

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Ali McGhee, PhD

Ali is the Director of the Enneagram School of Awakening, a writer, coach, and teacher who weaves together embodiment, psycho-spiritual inquiry, and creative practice to guide transformational learning.

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Valerie Wanamaker, LCSW

Valerie is a licensed therapist and core faculty member specializing in somatic healing, trauma resolution, and the integration of Enneagram wisdom into relational and spiritual growth.

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Ready to Reconnect?

Whether you're navigating conflict, entering a new chapter, or simply want to understand and support each other more fully, Enneagram coaching can help illuminate the way forward—together.

Book a Couples Typing Session or reach out to begin the conversation.

Book Your Couple’s Typing Session

Couples Single Session
$250.00

A virtual or in-person (Asheville area only) consultation for you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend. Up to 2 hours.

Includes:

  • Typing

  • Instinctual stacking

  • Identification of strengths, resources and roadblocks in connection

  • Communication skills

  • How to open to a relationship’s highest potential.

This is for booking a single session. See 3-session package if you would like to book multiple sessions.

Couples 3-Session Package
$660.00

3 sessions of up to 2 hours each, virtual or in-person (Asheville area only) consultation for you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend.

Includes:

  • Narrowing down core type

  • Deep dive into core type dynamics in partnership

  • Instinctual Stacking

  • Identification of strengths, resources and roadblocks in connection

  • Communication skills

  • How to open to a relationship’s highest potential.

Sessions may be used by an individual or by partners. For example, you could do all 3 sessions together, or have 2 individual sessions and 1 session together.