Enneagram Coaching for Couples
Deepen Connection. Navigate Conflict. Grow Together.
Enneagram Coaching for Relationships
Our couples coaching is designed to help you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend understand each other more clearly, communicate more compassionately, and move through challenges with greater awareness and grace.
Using the Enneagram in the Embodiment Tradition, we’ll explore how your patterns interact—where you may feel stuck, misunderstood, or disconnected—and guide you back to connection through presence, empathy, and insight.
Sessions include a discussion of core type and Instinctual stacking, and how that unique combination affects communication. You’ll leave with a tailored plan for growth that supports deepened clarity and purposeful engagement.
Together, you’ll move past miscommunication, blame, and separateness, embracing the journey of learning how to meet yourselves and each other with more openness, clarity, and love.
Testimonials
Ona A.
I needed someone to orient me to a loved one's core motivations in order to understand her better. Ali was an amazing coach for us and helped us grow tremendously. Her embodied approach stays with you!
Lauren T.
The energy Ali brought to our typing session was so comforting it was like we had been friends for years. Her knowledge of the Enneagram was very enlightening and has helped me understand and embrace who I am and why I show up the way I do. I am looking forward to continuing to integrate what I learned with Ali into my life and all my relationships.
Johanna & Kent
Both of us came into our session with backgrounds in psychology and a deep love of exploring self-actualization through different modalities, so we weren’t totally new to this kind of experience. But we did walk away saying it was better than some therapy sessions we’ve had, which honestly says a lot about how much we both got out of it.
What surprised us was how useful and reaffirming the experience with Ali was, both individually and as a couple. She has a really clear, supportive way of guiding you through the Enneagram while also getting well beyond the surface-level “what type are you?” conversation.
Digging into our types, stacking, patterns, and how those pieces interact gave us language for things we already intuitively understood about ourselves and each other, while also uncovering things we hadn’t quite connected before. We left feeling more understood by each other and with a deeper framework for how we each move through the world and our relationship. It was insightful, validating, and genuinely fun to do together. We will definitely come back for another session!
Meet Your Guides
Ali McGhee, PhD
Ali is the Director of the Enneagram School of Awakening, a writer, coach, and teacher who weaves together embodiment, psycho-spiritual inquiry, and creative practice to guide transformational learning.
Valerie Wanamaker, LCSW
Valerie is a licensed therapist and core faculty member specializing in somatic healing, trauma resolution, and the integration of Enneagram wisdom into relational and spiritual growth.
Ready to Reconnect?
Whether you're navigating conflict, entering a new chapter, or simply want to understand and support each other more fully, Enneagram coaching can help illuminate the way forward—together.
Book a Couples Typing Session or reach out to begin the conversation.
Book Your Couple’s Typing Session
A virtual or in-person (Asheville area only) consultation for you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend. Up to 2 hours.
Includes:
Typing
Instinctual stacking
Identification of strengths, resources and roadblocks in connection
Communication skills
How to open to a relationship’s highest potential
Follow-up plan and resources
This is for booking a single session. See 3-session package if you would like to book multiple sessions.
3 sessions of up to 2 hours each of consultation for you and your partner, family member, coworker, or friend. Virtual or in-person (Asheville area only).
Includes:
Narrowing down core type and Instinctual Stacking
Deep dive into core type dynamics in partnership
Identification of strengths, resources and roadblocks in connection
Communication skills
How to open to a relationship’s highest potential
Continued support and gentle accountability over time
Sessions may be used by an individual or by partners. For example, you could do all 3 sessions together, or have 2 individual sessions and 1 session together.